I am now about five years removed from the time my husband decided to leave without any attempt to heal whatever he thought was wrong and without any expressed warning to me. He had made up his mind to leave, and that is what he did. Needless to say separation and divorce tend to lead … Continue reading
Ask the Divorce Lady What should I do with my wedding ring now that my husband has walked out on me? For me the answer was simple “Hock that puppy!” I don’t think there is any wrong answer to the question of what to do with a wedding ring when it no longer stands for the … Continue reading
I have decided I am going, to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth so help me God. I am going to share it in segments here on my divorce recovery blog. I have been silent way too long. For today I am just going to share a photo and some … Continue reading
**This is a memory of the day I was baptized at CrossPointe Church. 2013** I remember distinctly the day I was baptized. I was 18 years old. There was a large group of us in a country field standing in front of a large pond. We all lined up and then took turns being … Continue reading
Find yourself a comfy seat grab a cup of coffee or a glass of wine or bottle of beer and join me for my weekly news and video roundup. I would love to hear your thoughts on any of the articles. 📰Divorce News📰 *Did you hire a PI? I did and I am so glad that … Continue reading
“KEEP LOOKING UP CHILDREN”…..PAIN OF DIVORCE “THE BEGINNING” Let’s go back to the beginning of my nightmare. This is a memory from my journey through divorce. July 2013 Another bad day. I went through the motions at work and somehow managed to made it through the day. After work I forced myself, as I do … Continue reading
I liked this quote as soon as I read it. When learning anything in life, whether it be a new skill or navigating the waters of a life trauma, in my case and unwanted divorce, these are times when we may regress or seem to go backward. These are the times we might make a … Continue reading
I just listened to a sermon from the Summit Church in Durham NC. The focus of the talk was Esther from the Old Testament. She was placed in a situation, not of her choosing. But it was the choices she made in this “time” that made all the difference. Her impact was far-reaching, saving the … Continue reading
I remember reading a book titled, “Before I Go to Sleep” by S. J. Watson. As I am reading, I am always looking for quotes that touch an emotional chord in me. The storyline of the book is centered around a woman who has lost her memory, regains bits and pieces of it throughout her … Continue reading
I am not really what you would call a bath person. I typically take showers. When I heard that some folks take baths to relieve stress, I began reading numerous sites on what good can occur just by taking a bath. Here is what I found. The positive effects of taking a bath: Improves mood/a … Continue reading