Surviving the Pain of Divorce One Day at a Time. kathieyvwrites@gmail.com
Several years ago I stated a series called “Ask The Divorce Lady”. I am starting the segment up again and I thought I would begin by sharing my first video in the series. I would love to know your thoughts. If you have any questions for the Divorce Lady let me know in the comment…
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Words of Pain and Hope From Others Going Through Divorce If you going through divorce hang in there you are not alone. Always remember God’s Promise” I will never leave you or forsake you” Thank You God! Kathiey V
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Yes, it is the holiday season. Back before my separation and divorce, the holidays had an air of magic about them. A time to celebrate our family and our faith. This is no longer true now that we are a family divided. The first holiday season I spent alone was in 2013. I remember the…
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The stress levels that we experience can directly affect our physical, emotional, and mental health. Divorce is listed as one of the most stressful events in a persons life. Having experienced the pain and stress of divorce I decided I would look for some ways to decrease the effects of stress in my life. Here…
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Divorce is one of the most painful events in a person’s life. That being siad there is still joy to be found if we take the time to find it. How have I found joy this month?I have found joy in my family, food, the change from summer to fall, food, and my dog Brodie.How…
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“Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our life.” ~Unknown I  love this quote.  I believe healing from a devastating event is a process.  The length of time this process takes is individual.  For some of us, it will be a life long process.  I have seen over the last…
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This was written back in the early days of my unwanted separation and pending divorce. That is whay I call it “The Beginning” I believe that these “productive ways” are good advice if there was infidelity in your marriage or not. Â “10 Productive Ways to Move on After Infidelity” (My opinions in red:-) By Anita…
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I just did a post on Divorce and Depression and thought I would follow up that thought with an article by Daniela Ginta that deals with Managing Depression After Divorce. Â I am going to look at the article and see which suggestions I used in the early days of my divorce. Â Maybe there are some…
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I see the unexpected abandonment by my husband as a storm. Â A category five hurricane that entered my life. Â The entire process turned my life, my emotions, my dreams, and the expectations of my future upside down. For me, divorce was probably worse than a storm because, in most cases, in a storm, the damage…
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