Surviving the Pain of Divorce One Day at a Time. kathieyvwrites@gmail.com
As I look at the information on getting a divorce during Coronaviurs I am finding very little. The bulk of the information I have found has been about shared custody during this time of social distancing. There are many articles on the difficulty this will cause married couples and how being homebound together could lead…
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I like this quote I found online in regard to being a survivor of a narcissist… “The abuse doesn’t happen because the victims volunteer for it. The abuse happens because the abusers lie, manipulate and speak in mixed messages. And out of love and a sense of fairness, we trust them”. Narcissism Book of…
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I was reading a post on one of my favorite sites, Divorced Moms. There are many stories out there by many women thrown away by the man that promised to “love and to cherish till death do we part”. Empty words and empty promises. Here is a post by Moxie. You can feel her pain but…
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When my husband first left me, I had a strong desire to help other women going through the same pain. I remember so vividly sitting in the office where I worked and feeling strongly that God told me to write. Write about the initial shock, write about the process, and write about the joy that…
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I cannot adequately describe the pain of an unwanted divorce, but I can explain the effect, at least the impact it had on me. I remember lying in bed, not able to sleep, unable to stop crying, feeling both emotional and physical pain to the point where my skin literally burned. During this time, I…
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There is something relaxing about taking a hike outside on a nice day. Feeling the cool breeze and warm sun on your face as you surround yourself with the beauty of the countryside has a calming effect, at least on me. As I was looking for ways to relieve stress I found that many believe…
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My series is called “The Beginning”. It is a look back on thoughts, feelings, and events that shaped the early days of my unwanted separation and pending divorce. This was taken from an old blog post I wrote during the early painful days. ******************************************************************************************************** The Beginning I am reading a book by Max Lucado, it…
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Click the link below to read the article by John Piper Why Falling Out of Love Never Justifies Divorce The author of the article believes that people will fall in and out of love numerous times during their marriage. He says that staying in a marriage is about commitment and promise-keeping, being a person of…
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