Inspirational Quotes-You Must Focus to See God’s Light

I found I could relate to this quote by Aristotle.  My divorce was the darkest time in my life.  The only way I could begin to see even a flicker of light was when I put my faith, my hope, and my fears in God’s hands.   If you are on this journey, I hope…

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My Divorce is Final-The Realization of a Dream Destroyed

Divorce, Realization of a Dream Destroyed. Well, today,  Feb 9, 2017,  I am officially divorced.  So how do I feel on this impactful day?  I will try to verbalize it… Did I ever in a million years predict that I would be divorced?  No!Did I choose to break a vow to someone I loved, or…

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A Few Ways To Survive the Pain Of Divorce

In my opinion, divorce is one of the most stressful times in a person’s life.  I can only say that because I am experiencing it.  I never thought I would find myself in this situation, having been married for 37 years.  I didn’t think it would happen to me, but that just shows us we…

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Steps to Survive The Holidays After Divorce

Yes, it is the holiday season. Back before my separation and divorce, the holidays had an air of magic about them. A time to celebrate our family and our faith. This division of my family now caused significant changes in how the holiday season is celebrated. I would have to learn to accept these changes…

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Need Stress Relief-Try Taking a Bath

Many things in life can increase our stress. There are also many techniques that can help relieve stress. With that in mind, let’s take a look at one way to relieve stress,  and that is by taking a relaxing bath. Need Stress Relief? Try Taking a Bath.  I am not really what you would call…

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Journal Prompt-Forgiveness After Divorce, What Does That Look Like?

Here is our Journal Prompt for November.  This question relates to a book I am currently reading.  Chicken Soup for the Soul-Divorce and Recovery.  Here is a link to my youtube channel with more journal prompts…Divorce Recovery Book Club.  Let’s get started with the question… What does forgiveness look like when attempting to forgive someone…

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Joy In The Journey-Divorce Diversion-Let’s Have Some Fun!

I hope you are having a lovely Friday. It is a rainy day here in NC. I hope it is a beautiful day where you are. All of us who have gone through a divorce know how painful the process can be and that the pain can linger.   My motto is “fight to find…

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Divorce Recovery Book Club-Chicken Soup for the Soul Divorce and Recovery pages 39-46.

I have been going through the book called Chicken Soup for the Soul for some time now. If I continue to go at the pace I have been going, we may never finish, so I have decided to pick up the pace a bit. Instead of reading one sub-chapter each time, I have decided to…

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What is the Latest Divorce in the News for Nov, 7,2022?

 Every week or so, I look at what is happening in Divorce News. I search “divorce” in Google and put a time frame on the search of that current week to give me an overview of what is happening in divorce news. The trending news is typically celebrity news. For instance, this week, the focus…

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My Thoughts on An Article I found on Huff Post, “10 Productive Ways to Move On After Infidelity” by Anita Yok Sim Ho.

I like to read relevant articles on divorce. I read them to help me learn about issues involving divorce, and many times, I can apply them to my current life or see if they were true in the early days of my divorce. The article I am looking at today is called Ten Helpful Ways…

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