My Story My Divorce God’s Promise The Beginning….

  Click here to order my book….thanks:-) As a pastor’s wife, KathieyV witnesses the ups and downs of every type of relationship over the years as she partners with her husband while he serves the church community. But one day—out of the blue—her husband of thirty-seven years breaks his vows and leaves her. The despair…

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Monthly Motivation “God is Here

I wrote this devotional back in 2017.  I think it is a reminder of God’s love for us during all things even this Covid19 Pandemic. As I was reading along with this short devotional, I soon realized that my go-to verses in my time of greatest need are incorporated in the text.  Thus making this…

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Social Distancing-My Daily Walk has become a Video Game

Taking a daily walk has changed in the last few weeks due to Covid19.  I remember going on a walk just a month ago and sharing sidewalks with others out enjoying their walk or run.  This is no longer our reality, things have most definitely changed with the addition of social distancing, and I can’t…

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Stress Relief During Social Isolation. A Few Tips From the CDC

According to the CDC there are several things we can do to cope emotionally during this pandemic.  I have listed a few things I found on their website and I am going to share how they relate to me.  Their heading for this list is… “Things you can do to support yourself..” *Take breaks from…

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Divorce During the CoronaVirus

As I look at the information on getting a divorce during Coronaviurs I am finding very little.  The bulk of the information I have found has been about shared custody during this time of social distancing.  There are many articles on the difficulty this will cause married couples and how being homebound together could lead…

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Trapped At Home During the CoronaVirus. Ways I stay somewhat sane.

I know that many of us are practicing social distancing in an attempt to “flatten the curve” to protect ourselves and those we love from getting the virus.  We also isolate ourselves in an attempt to decrease the massive influx of patients that have to go to the hospital thus taxing healthcare equipment and staff.…

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Narcissism, “Be Free”

I like this quote I found online in regard to being a survivor of a narcissist… “The abuse doesn’t happen because the victims volunteer for it. The abuse happens because the abusers lie, manipulate and speak in  mixed messages.  And out of love and a sense of fairness, we trust them”.   Narcissism Book of…

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The Beginning-The Butterfly(Written in 2014)

I was reading a post on one of my favorite sites, Divorced Moms.  There are many stories out there by many women thrown away by the man that promised to “love and to cherish till death do we part”.  Empty words and empty promises.  Here is a post by Moxie.  You can feel her pain but…

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Monthly Motivation “Build That Tower” Luke 14:28-30

When my husband first left me, I had a strong desire to help other women going through the same pain.  I remember so vividly sitting in the office where I worked and feeling strongly that God told me to write.  Write about the initial shock, write about the process, and write about the joy that…

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