My Story My Divorce God’s Promise The Beginning….

  Click here to order my book….thanks:-) As a pastor’s wife, KathieyV witnesses the ups and downs of every type of relationship over the years as she partners with her husband while he serves the church community. But one day—out of the blue—her husband of thirty-seven years breaks his vows and leaves her. The despair…

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Home Care-Oh No My Toilet is Clogged!

Back in my married days if there was a problem with anything in the house I would let my husband know and he would take care of the situation.  If he could not handle it he would call in a professional.  Well, now it is up to me to attempt to solve any problems that…

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Need a bit of stress relief? Try a puzzle.

Divorce ranks up there with the greatest of stressors.  The stress caused by divorce ranks just under the death of a spouse.  I would disagree with that because to me, “Divorce is like a death but with intent” Going through an unwanted divorce, to me, was the most stressful event in my life so far.…

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My Thoughts on Divorce in the Media “Grace and Frankie”

I started watching this show in 2016 and then I just stopped.  I don’t think I was totally ready for it because the hurt was still strong and raw.  I am ready now, and I thought I will slowly watch the show in its 6-year entirety and share my thoughts on the episodes as we…

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Looking Back, My Divorce Journey The Beginning Series ” Help! I’ve been thrown away”

My husband left me unexpectedly in 2013.  The emotional pain was beyond what I could have imagined.  In this Series “Looking Back at My Divorce Journey” I will share some of my writings and experiences of that time. Looking Back at My Divorce Journey 2014 I am writing this letter because I have been through…

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Looking Back at my Divorce Journey “The Beginning Series” Help! I’ve been thrown away”

My husband left me unexpectedly in 2013.  The emotional pain was beyond what I could have imagined.  In this Series “Looking Back at My Divorce Journey” I will share some of my writings and experiences of that time. Looking Back at My Divorce Journey 2014 I am writing this letter because I have been through…

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10 Things Every Woman Going Through a Divorce Wants to Hear from Huff Post

I was reading an article from Huff Post….10 Things Every Woman Going Through a Divorce Wants to Hear.  I know that before my experience with separation and divorce I had no clue as to the extent of the pain.   I think my reply to a woman who was going through this would have been…

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