My Story My Divorce God’s Promise The Beginning….

  Click here to order my book….thanks:-) As a pastor’s wife, KathieyV witnesses the ups and downs of every type of relationship over the years as she partners with her husband while he serves the church community. But one day—out of the blue—her husband of thirty-seven years breaks his vows and leaves her. The despair…

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The Journey-A Quote by an Unknown Author

“Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our life.” ~Unknown I  love this quote.  I believe healing from a devastating event is a process.  The length of time this process takes is individual.  For some of us, it will be a life long process.  I have seen over the last…

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Journal Prompt- What is Your Favorite Season of the Year and Why?

The answer to this question comes to my mind immediately. I don’t even have to think twice about it. My favorite season of the year is fall.  One reason it is my favorite season is that I live in North Carolina.  The NC summers are so hot and humid that beginning in June, I start…

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My Story, The Beginning-Little Did I Know

Back to a some what better time and I was extremely excited. What I had hoped for was finally coming true. (all thanks to my parents giving me a very nice inheritance). We could finally go on a family vacation and I had dreams of many more to come. We loaded up the car and…

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Journal Prompt-Share a Time You Helped Someone in Need

Over the years, I would like to think that I helped someone along the way.  I guess that regarding helping someone, my mind goes back to my years as an RN. I worked in hospitals and clinics and met many in need of a touch to ease their physical and emotional pain. Working as a…

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Monthly Motivation-Get Back Up Again!

Have you ever failed at anything?  I have.  Have you ever fallen down either physically, or figuratively and felt you did not have the strength to keep on trying? I have.  Have you ever felt lost/confused and just did not have the motivation even to try to get out of the hole you have dug…

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Journal Prompt-What Is the Scariest Thing You Have Ever Done?

What is the scariest thing you have ever done?When I think back to one of the scariest things I have ever done, one event comes immediately to mind.  What is that you ask?  Parasailing in the Caribbean.   I remember signing up for the parasailing ride.  You could have so much time for a specific…

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Journal Prompt-What Does My Soul Need Right Now?

What Does My Soul Need Right Now My soul was broken the day my husband left me in 2013.  My soul has healed somewhat over the years. I find I can live in denial, thus avoiding the pain or at least suppressing it.  Then suddenly, another hurt comes, and the pain resurfaces.  I find myself where I…

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Divorce Recovery-“Lawyers are a Girl’s Best Friend”

I like this quote by Zsa Zsa Gabor. I can relate to its meaning now that I have experienced the depth of its truth. If you find yourself in the throes of an unwanted and unexpected separation and pending divorce as I did, please hire an experienced attorney.  Do this sooner rather than later.  I…

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