My Story My Divorce God’s Promise The Beginning….

  Click here to order my book….thanks:-) As a pastor’s wife, KathieyV witnesses the ups and downs of every type of relationship over the years as she partners with her husband while he serves the church community. But one day—out of the blue—her husband of thirty-seven years breaks his vows and leaves her. The despair…

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My Story My Divorce God’s Promise:The Beginning, Help From a Radio Station, K-Love

I remember the painful early days of my separation.  The event knocked me to the ground, where I landed in a soul-crushing fetal position. My emotions changed, and in an instant, my calm and clear mind fell into a cloud of confusion and despair.  I remember my ability to do the things I did every…

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Travel and Stress Relief, Let’s take a Trip

Marital separation and divorce are ranked just under the death of a child as the most stressful experiences.    With this in mind, I am always looking for ways to decrease stress.   Lately, I have been reading about stress relief and travel. Let’s Take a Trip I am sure that travel can cause its fair…

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Morning Motivation-Scripture and a Prayer Genesis 28:15

Thank you, God, for walking with us on this journey.  Please direct my path and keep me on the road that you want me to follow.  If I start to deviate, please put up a roadblock and redirect me.  Since I can’t see clearly, I put my full trust in you. Help me to live…

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Ask the Divorce Lady, “The After Life”

I would love to know your thoughts. If you have any questions for the Divorce Lady let me know in the comment box. God Bless, KathieyV

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Motivation for May Part Three-Psalm 46:10 “Trust” A Few Quotes

Here are a few quotes related to this months topic “Once I knew only darkness and stillness… my life was without past or future… but a little word from the fingers of another fell into my hand that clutched at emptiness, and my heart leaped to the rapture of living.” Helen Keller “I have complete confidence…

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Divorce Diversion-Weekend Reading and Watching Plus Links to My YouTube Channel

📰Reading📰 5 Surfaces that Can’t be Cleaned With Vinegar The ones that stood out to me were the unsealed grout and stone surfaces.  Good to know. Uses for Plastic Grocery Bags I have used mine for doggie pick up and for trash liners. The World’s First Beer Hotel It is a shame I don’t like…

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The Journey Through Divorce-Hire an Attorney

“I would not have enough to survive if I did not have my lawyer to protect me.” KathieyV (2013) (Disclaimer-I am not an expert.  This information is just based on my experience and may not work in your situation.) I remember when I was first thrown away the shock I felt left me feeling off…

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Divorce in the Media TV; Dr Foster Season 1 Episode 1 (spoiler alert)

When I first was faced with an unwanted separation and unnecessary divorce I could not find the strength to watch TV shows or movies about divorce.  I was in a bottomless pit, and I did not have the emotional strength to do so.   Now, however, I soak in anything I can find on divorce…

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