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Betrayal Trauma: A Series. What is Betrayal Trauma?

Have you ever heard of betrayal trauma and wondered if you might be experiencing it? I hadn’t until I came across a YouTube video that opened my eyes to this often overlooked type of trauma. After watching, I realized I might be carrying some aspects of betrayal trauma myself. In this four-part series, we’ll explore…
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Welcome to the World of Online Dating-The Blurry Photo: A Common Red Flag in Online Dating

You know, after a long marriage, a lot of us never imagined we’d be diving into the world of online dating. But here we are, figuring it out and trying to find some new connections. It’s definitely a different ballgame, but sometimes, it’s just part of starting over. I’ve been doing some research and exploring…
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Surviving and Thriving: Valentine’s Day After Divorce

Being alone on Valentine’s Day after a divorce can stir up a mix of difficult emotions. With romantic imagery everywhere, it often feels like a painful reminder of loss and loneliness, sometimes even bringing up grief, anger, and anxiety. For many, it becomes like a second breakup or a day of mourning for the life…
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Beware The Narcissist! The Narcissist and Triangulation. A Cruel Manipulative Game!

Beware The Narcissist! The narcissist uses many tools to create havoc and achieve their goals, and one such tool is triangulation. First off, what is the definition of Triangulation? Here is a definition I found on Healthline..”Triangulation happens when one or both of the people involved in the conflict try to pull a third…
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Inspirational Quotes: Finding God’s Light in the Darkness

“It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light.” — Aristotle These words by Aristotle resonate deeply with me, especially when I think back to the darkest chapter of my life—my divorce. It was a time filled with uncertainty, pain, and fear, a period when light seemed all but extinguished.…
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Fun Friday-Discovering Neo Deco: Creating and Selling My Latest Design

Today is Etsy shop day, and I’m putting the spotlight on my shop, Art In Design. It’s where I create and share a mix of fun digital downloads—some inspired by the latest trends and others showcasing fun prints and some of my photography. It’s always exciting to play with colors, shapes, and themes to bring style and…
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From Shock to Strength: Healing After a Blindsided Divorce

Have you heard of a blindsided divorce? It’s a painful reality for many who find themselves completely caught off guard by their partner’s decision to end the marriage. I know this feeling all too well. I experienced a blindsided divorce firsthand, unaware that my spouse had already been secretly planning to leave—securing an apartment and…
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Monthly Motivation: Tasting the Layers of Life—Joy and Challenge Alike

Some time ago, I read an intriguing novel called The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cakeby Aimee Bender. The story centers on a girl with a unique gift—the ability to taste the emotions and feelings woven into the food others prepare for her. Through flavors of joy, betrayal, fear, and loneliness, she uncovers hidden truths and gets…





