My Story My Divorce God’s Promise The Beginning….

  Click here to order my book….thanks:-) As a pastor’s wife, KathieyV witnesses the ups and downs of every type of relationship over the years as she partners with her husband while he serves the church community. But one day—out of the blue—her husband of thirty-seven years breaks his vows and leaves her. The despair…

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Looking Back on My Divorce-An Article from Huff Post.

If you think you understand the feelings and emotions of a woman going through the pain of “Being Left,” you don’t.  At least not until you go through it yourself.  I, too, though I could relate to the pain of a woman being thrown away, I was mistaken.  I understand it now.  I am nearing…

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Journal Prompt-Write About a Place Where You Feel Safe

I have not always felt safe. For me, safety came in the form of places, people, situations, and circumstances. My childhood home was, for the most part, physically safe but not an emotional safe haven. My married life was much of the same.  When my husband left me, I found myself alone in a big…

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Divorce Diversion-New Book Releases For March 2021 That Caught My Eye

Here are a few books that caught my eye that release in March 2021. (If you click on the photo of the books below it should take you to Amazon where you can get more info.  I am an Amazon affiliate.  If you buy anything on Amazon I will get a percent of the sale…

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Monthly Motivation-Listen for the Whisper of God

 In my lifetime, I have learned that two things are consistent.  The first is that change is a part of life, and change will occur. Sometimes change is easy, and we welcome it, even pray for it. Sometimes change is challenging, and we wonder how we can escape the pain of it. The second and…

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Stress Relief-Flowers and Stress Relief

 I do love flowers.  I used to spend a lot of time at Garden Centers and Parks taking photos of flowers.  I found it very relaxing to immerse myself in the environment of the flower gardens.  I think I found peace among the beautiful plants, and in that, some of the stress in my life…

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Journal Prompt-What Was Your Career Goal When You Were A Child and How Was Your Reality Different?

My career goal as a child was pure, idealistic, and full of hope. I recall so clearly my desire to be a Catholic Sister. I would daydream about following God and serving others through the sisterhood. The problem was that I was not Catholic. Where did this desire to be a Catholic Sister develop? Thinking…

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Ask the Divorce Lady, “The After Life”

Several years ago I stated a series called “Ask The Divorce Lady”. I am starting the segment up again and I thought I would begin by sharing my first video in the series. I would love to know your thoughts. If you have any questions for the Divorce Lady let me know in the comment…

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All Secrets Will Be Brought Into the Light

Have you ever read a story where a person lived with someone for years and never knew who they really were or what they were up to?  Have you ever heard people say, “she had to have known she lived with him for decades”?  Well, I am here to tell you that you can live…

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Divorce Diversion-Travel and Wine Before Covid-Childress Vineyards

Travel Blast From the Past I just checked out their website to see if they were open during Covid and found that “Yes”, they are!  They are still serving meals in their restaurant, and they continue to have wine tastings.  I would go on the site to check out the restrictions and make a reservation…

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