Tag: #kathieyvwriter
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What The Heck Is…? Divorce From Bed and Board.

What The Heck Is….? Divorce From Bed and Board This is how I understand divorce from bed and board. Divorce from bed and board is a court-ordered separation where the couple remains legally married but lives apart. It’s a fault-based legal action initiated at the request of the injured spouse. Divorce from Bed and Board… …
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How Long Does it Take to Get Over Divorce? It Depends on Who You Ask!

How long does it really take to heal from the end of a long-term marriage? Well, the answer varies depending on who you ask. Divorce is tough—especially when it’s not what you wanted. After 37 years of marriage, going through that kind of ending was the hardest thing I’ve ever faced. Healing is a long…
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Beginning Your Day: The Power of a Morning Routine

Life can throw us some tough curveballs—divorce, major changes, and unexpected challenges that can feel overwhelming and chaotic. Amidst this uncertainty, a simple, consistent morning routine can be a surprisingly powerful tool. While it might seem mundane, having a steady start to your day can bring structure, ease mental clutter, and create a calming sense…
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Ask the Divorce Lady-Dear Divorce Lady..Will I Be Judged For Swearing?

Is it okay to swear when you’re going through a rough time like a divorce? And does God really judge us for using those words? The truth is, it depends on who you ask. Everyone has their own take on swearing, especially when emotions are running high. In this post, let’s answer the question, from…
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Inspirational Quotes-Become Who You Really Are.

Inspirational Quotes Quotes have a unique power—they can make us pause and think, warm our hearts, lift our spirits, and even guide us when we’re uncertain of our path. They offer hope, strength, and clarity in just a few words. In this ongoing series, I share quotes that inspire and provoke reflection. Today, let’s explore…
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Dating After Divorce-Romance Scams, A Few Warning Signs.

Dating After Divorce-The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly Welcome to Dating After Divorce, a series that explores the unique journey of stepping back into the dating world after a long-term marriage or significant relationship. Many of us never imagined we’d be navigating this new terrain, but here we are—embracing the excitement of meeting new people…
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Inspirational Quotes: Finding Courage to Open New Doors

Today, I want to share a quote by Ava DuVernay that really resonates: “I’m not going to continue knocking that old door that doesn’t open for me. I’m going to create my own door and walk through that.” This hits home on so many levels. To find success and happiness, we can’t keep repeating the…
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If You Could Design Your Perfect Life, What Would It Look Like For You?

Journal Prompt-If you could design your perfect life, what would it look like for you? When I consider what a perfect life looks like, I can’t help but reflect on my life before and after divorce. Before divorce, I viewed my life through the lens of commitment—commitment to my marriage and my vows to God.…
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What the Heck is Series -What the Heck is Divorce Through Publication?

Welcome to my series, What the Heck Is…, where I break down common divorce and divorce recovery terms in easy-to-understand language. If you’re new to the divorce process or feeling overwhelmed by all the jargon, this series is for you. Together, we’ll demystify the terms and help you gain confidence as you navigate this challenging journey.…
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Stress Relief and Self-Care -Let’s Get a Pedicure!

Taking time for self-care is essential for helping us relax and manage stress. In fact, this idea is supported by research—Amherst College notes that caring for yourself helps preserve your physical, emotional, and mental energy, enabling you to better handle stress. So, this week, I treated myself to a pedicure—perfect timing with sandal weather and…
