Ask the Divorce Lady, “The After Life”

I would love to know your thoughts. If you have any questions for the Divorce Lady let me know in the comment box. God Bless, KathieyV

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The Journey Through Divorce-Hire an Attorney

“I would not have enough to survive if I did not have my lawyer to protect me.” KathieyV (2013) (Disclaimer-I am not an expert.  This information is just based on my experience and may not work in your situation.) I remember when I was first thrown away the shock I felt left me feeling off…

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Divorce in the Media TV; Dr Foster Season 1 Episode 1 (spoiler alert)

When I first was faced with an unwanted separation and unnecessary divorce I could not find the strength to watch TV shows or movies about divorce.  I was in a bottomless pit, and I did not have the emotional strength to do so.   Now, however, I soak in anything I can find on divorce…

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Thoughts on an Article: Lady Blows Up Her Wedding Dress.

Woman Blows Up Her Wedding Dress To Celebrate Divorce (Click the link above to read the article) This article is a story about a Texas woman who could not decide what to do with her wedding dress after her 14 years of marriage ended. She was given many suggestions as to what to do with…

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My Thoughts on a Divorce Article- “When Grandparents Divorce Everyone Hurts”

  When Grandparents Divorce Everyone Hurts by D. Scott Sibley-Institute For Family Studies I remember how concerned I was when my husband decided to leave me not only concerned about the impact it would have on me but also the effect it would have on our children and grandchildren.  When this happened, I was most…

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My Story My Divorce-The Beginning, The Separation Agreement

I remember the day my husband of 37 years handed me the separation agreement that he and his attorney had produced for me to sign.  At that time I was still trying to trust him because he told me I could, hoping that he had my best interest at heart.  Foolish? Yes!  Naive? Yes!  Stupid?…

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The Joy-Finding Joy in the Coffee Shop Psalm 16:11

Even when life is hard if we look around we can see God’s beauty that surrounds us.  It is everywhere. This week I found beauty in the spring flowers, my children and grandchildren, hearing the birds sing as my dog and I went on one of our many walks and the list goes on.  Thank…

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The Divorce Trip, Did You Take One?

I get all types of divorce info from various sites.  When I came across this video from the Jimmy Kimmel Show, I had to share it with you. Let’s listen to this woman’s story and compare it to our own. She was married for 48 hours and was two days into her honeymoon when she…

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The Beginning of Divorce: “A Woman is Like a Tea Bag”

This post is a blast from the past.  My thoughts as I was beginning my journey into the world of separation and divorce.  I place I did not choose to go but a road I was forced to travel. ********************************************************************************* I came across this saying at a local consignment store.  I find it to be…

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Morning Motivation,”How Can I Survive the Pain of Divorce?” Jason Gray

Take a minute to watch this short video by Jason Gray.  He shares his thoughts on divorce and that we can “rise” after the trauma of this life-changing event. “The initiative against despair is to rise and do the next thing”. Oswald Chambers   We may not understand why some things happen in our lives.…

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