A Truthful Quote-Think Before You Judge-Victim vs Abuser

 How many times have you heard someone going off about someone in a negative way?  In your mind, you may be thinking, “Wait a minute, that can’t be right.” Or maybe you are listening to an ex-spouse saying how crazy his ex is, and you are taking it in at face value as fact.  I…

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Divorce In The News September 1, 2023

 Every week or so, I see what happens in Divorce News. I search “divorce” in Google and put a time frame on the search of that current week or so to give me an overview of what is happening in divorce news. The trending news is typically celebrity news. Yes, in the news, it is…

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Divorce-Mending What is Broken

I had the opportunity to visit the Museum of Art in Raleigh, NC.  Every time I visit, I find something unique.  The exhibit that caught my eye on this particular day was a piece, or should I say “pieces,” of art called Bride.   It was explained to me that this was like a marriage.…

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A Blast From the Past-My Divorce Story-The Beginning

My Divorce Story…A blast from the past… I remember it was a Tuesday night.  It was the first week in June 2013. I worked on this particular Tuesday.  The only thing on my mind was getting through the day and heading home.  I would go for a walk with Brodie, make a quick and tasty…

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My Story My Divorce God’s Promise-The Journey…My Author Book Proof Unboxing

As you know, I have been working on my second book.  The first book title is My Story My Divorce God’s Promise-The Beginning.  The current book I am writing is called My Story My Divorce God’s Promise-The Journey.  The first book was written during the extreme pain of my unexpected separation, and the second is focused on…

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My Story My Divorce, The Beginning-The Deposition “I Plead the Fifth”

Blast From the Past 2013The Beginning The Deposition Just what is the Fifth Amendment? I found one answer on Lawyers.com “Under the  Fifth Amendment to the US Constitution, anyone suspected of committing a crime has the right to remain silent when questioned by police or prosecutors.  In other words, if truthful answers to their questions would prove you committed the crime, you don’t have…

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Divorce and Pets “How Do I Keep My Dog?”

My dog is part of my family.  I have had Brodie for 11 years, and it would be painful to lose him in divorce proceedings.  I adopted Brodie from a shelter in 2009, my husband left me in 2013, and my divorce was final in 2017.  There was never a threat that I could lose…

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What the Heck…What the Heck is Gaslighting?

Let’s continue with our series “What The Heck Is?” Today we are going to focus on gaslighting.   I had heard the term gaslighting, but I did not become curious about this term until my husband left me. Since then, I have researched the term and found it is pretty standard among narcissists and can…

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Ask The Divorce Lady: What Happens in the Afterlife to Those Who Intentionally Damage Others?

This is a series called “Ask The Divorce Lady.” ?The Afterlife? The Youtube Version Dear Divorce Lady, How do you envision the perfect afterlife for the narcissistic male who intentionally damages others without regard for the pain they leave behind? My AnswerTheir afterlife, if I were in charge, would look like this. All these so-called…

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Can Divorce Cause Depression? Yes! Divorce Can Cause Depression

Yes, Divorce Can Cause Depression I see the unexpected abandonment by my husband as a storm.  A category five hurricane that entered my life.  The entire process turned my life, my emotions, my dreams, and the expectations of my future upside down.   Divorce was probably worse than a storm because, in most cases, in…

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