The Beginning, Surviving Divorce “Just Breathe”

I cannot adequately describe the pain of an unwanted divorce, but I can explain the effect, at least the impact it had on me. I remember lying in bed, not able to sleep, unable to stop crying, feeling both emotional and physical pain to the point where my skin literally burned. During this time, I…

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The Beginning-“Fearless”

My series is called “The Beginning”.  It is a look back on thoughts, feelings, and events that shaped the early days of my unwanted separation and pending divorce.  This was taken from an old blog post I wrote during the early painful days. ******************************************************************************************************** The Beginning I am reading a book by Max Lucado, it…

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The Beginning-What Helped Me Survive the Early Days of an Unwanted Separation and Divorce.

In my opinion, divorce is one of the most stressful times in a person’s life.  I can only say that because I am experiencing it.  I never thought I would find myself in this situation, having been married for 37 years.  I didn’t think it would happen to me, but that just shows us we…

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Blast From the Past (2014) Thoughts of a Soon to be Divorced Woman..Death of a Family

Since I have entered the world of the soon to be divorced, I have spoken to many women going through the same scenario. Their stories may contain different details, but the theme remains the same. Husband leaves wife unexpectedly and usually with little concern as to how she will get by. Husband’s focus turns to…

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The Beginning..”As Long As I Can Do It” Blast From the Past

As one part of my series titled “The Beginning”,  I will be going back to old posts from the beginning of my divorce trauma. This post was written July 2013, about a month after I found out my husbands plans to break his vow to me and to God. Words of wisdom and encouragement….”As long…

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My Story:Blast From the Past-The Beginning

This series I am calling The Beginning because it goes back to the beginning of my traumatic life change.  I believe you have to share your story to help others on the same journey.  So here goes, let’s look back and remember and learn. The Past Those of you who are my friends, those of…

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The Beginning/My Thoughts on An Article”Can’t Sleep During Divorce…”

I was putting together a post on stress relief and sleep and came across an article that sounded interesting to me… “Can’t Sleep During Divorce?  How to Handle the 3 AM Divorce Demons” by Kat Forsythe. How well I remember those days.  Here is a quote from my book that highlights my inability to sleep,…

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The Beginning of Divorce: “A Woman is Like a Tea Bag”

This post is a blast from the past.  My thoughts as I was beginning my journey into the world of separation and divorce.  I place I did not choose to go but a road I was forced to travel. ********************************************************************************* I came across this saying at a local consignment store.  I find it to be…

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“Keep Looking Up Children”..Pain of Divorce “The Beginning”

“KEEP LOOKING UP CHILDREN”…..PAIN OF DIVORCE “THE BEGINNING” Let’s go back to the beginning of my nightmare. This is a memory from my journey through divorce. July 2013 Another bad day. I went through the motions at work and somehow managed to made it through the day. After work I forced myself, as I do…

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My Story My Divorce, The Beginning The Deposition of Ex, “I Plead The Fifth”

Blast From the Past 2013 The Beginning Just what is the Fifth Amendment? I found one answer on Lawyers.com “Under the  Fifth Amendment to the US Constitution, anyone suspected of committing a crime has the right to remain silent when questioned by police or prosecutors.  In other words, if truthful answers to their questions would prove you committed the crime, you don’t have to…

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