My Story, The Beginning-Little Did I Know

Back to a some what better time and I was extremely excited. What I had hoped for was finally coming true. (all thanks to my parents giving me a very nice inheritance). We could finally go on a family vacation and I had dreams of many more to come. We loaded up the car and…

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“The Beginning” Wisdom From the Web….Huff Post Divorce Pages “10 Productive Ways to Move on After Infidelity”

This was written back in the early days of my unwanted separation and pending divorce. That is whay I call it “The Beginning” I believe that these “productive ways” are good advice if there was infidelity in your marriage or not.  “10 Productive Ways to Move on After Infidelity” (My opinions in red:-) By Anita…

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Thinking Back to the Beginning of my Divorce “Faith”

It has not been easy since I have been put on the path toward divorce.  There are many hurdles.  In the beginning, it was the shock and depression and the disbelief of abandonment.  In the months to follow it has been an effort to continue to function as I had before, plus, taking on the…

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Looking Back at my Divorce Journey “The Beginning Series” Help! I’ve been thrown away”

My husband left me unexpectedly in 2013.  The emotional pain was beyond what I could have imagined.  In this Series “Looking Back at My Divorce Journey” I will share some of my writings and experiences of that time. Looking Back at My Divorce Journey 2014 I am writing this letter because I have been through…

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The Beginning, Surviving Divorce “Just Breathe”

I cannot adequately describe the pain of an unwanted divorce, but I can explain the effect, at least the impact it had on me. I remember lying in bed, not able to sleep, unable to stop crying, feeling both emotional and physical pain to the point where my skin literally burned. During this time, I…

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The Beginning-“Fearless”

My series is called “The Beginning”.  It is a look back on thoughts, feelings, and events that shaped the early days of my unwanted separation and pending divorce.  This was taken from an old blog post I wrote during the early painful days. ******************************************************************************************************** The Beginning I am reading a book by Max Lucado, it…

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The Beginning-What Helped Me Survive the Early Days of an Unwanted Separation and Divorce.

In my opinion, divorce is one of the most stressful times in a person’s life.  I can only say that because I am experiencing it.  I never thought I would find myself in this situation, having been married for 37 years.  I didn’t think it would happen to me, but that just shows us we…

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Blast From the Past (2014) Thoughts of a Soon to be Divorced Woman..Death of a Family

Since I have entered the world of the soon to be divorced, I have spoken to many women going through the same scenario. Their stories may contain different details, but the theme remains the same. Husband leaves wife unexpectedly and usually with little concern as to how she will get by. Husband’s focus turns to…

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The Beginning..”As Long As I Can Do It” Blast From the Past

As one part of my series titled “The Beginning”,  I will be going back to old posts from the beginning of my divorce trauma. This post was written July 2013, about a month after I found out my husbands plans to break his vow to me and to God. Words of wisdom and encouragement….”As long…

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My Story:Blast From the Past-The Beginning

This series I am calling The Beginning because it goes back to the beginning of my traumatic life change.  I believe you have to share your story to help others on the same journey.  So here goes, let’s look back and remember and learn. The Past Those of you who are my friends, those of…

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