My Thoughts on An Article I found on Huff Post, “10 Productive Ways to Move On After Infidelity” by Anita Yok Sim Ho.

I like to read relevant articles on divorce. I read them to help me learn about issues involving divorce, and many times, I can apply them to my current life or see if they were true in the early days of my divorce. The article I am looking at today is called Ten Helpful Ways…

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Divorce in the News-What is Happening in Divorce News This Week?

 Every week or so, I look at what is happening in Divorce News. I search “divorce” in Google and put a time frame on the search of that current week to give me an overview of what is happening in divorce news. The trending news is typically celebrity news. For instance, this week, the focus…

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Can Divorce Make You Sick? Sadly Yes, Let’s Talk About It.

I can tell you, based on my experience, that divorce can make you sick. I was shocked when I found out my husband of 37 years had filed for legal separation. I had no idea I was headed down this path, and it took an emotional and physical toll that I still fight today. Please…

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Ask The Divorce Lady: What Happens in the Afterlife to Those Who Intentionally Damage Others?

This is a series called “Ask The Divorce Lady.” ?The Afterlife? The Youtube Version Dear Divorce Lady, How do you envision the perfect afterlife for the narcissistic male who intentionally damages others without regard for the pain they leave behind? My AnswerTheir afterlife, if I were in charge, would look like this. All these so-called…

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Stress Relief/Taking Care of You Ways to Decrease Stress-The Plan

I started a series several years ago called Stress Relief. I want to include Self Care in this series because in taking care of ourselves, I believe that we can decrease our stress, at least for a moment.   Here is a quote that I found…“The Holmes-Rahe Stress Scale indicates that divorce is the second…

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Need Stress Relief? Try Taking a Relaxing Bath.

Many things in life can increase our stress. There are also many techniques that can help relieve stress. With that in mind, let’s take a look at one way to relieve stress,¬†and that is by taking a relaxing bath. Need Stress Relief? Try Taking a Bath.  I am not really what you would call a…

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Divorce Recovery Book Club, Chicken Soup For the Soul Divorce and Recovery Pages 17-35

 I have been going through the book called Chicken Soup for the Soul for some time now.  If I continue to go at the pace I have been going, we may never finish, so I have decided to pick up the pace a bit.  Instead of reading one sub-chapter each time, I have decided to…

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Weekly Quote by Aristotle

I found I could relate to this quote by Aristotle.  My divorce was the darkest time in my life.  The only way I could begin to see even a flicker of light was when I put my faith, my hope, and my fears in God’s hands.    If you are on this journey, I hope…

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Divorce in the News Sept 30, 2022

 Five of the latest divorce articles include an article on Divorces Coaches, Grand Parents and their divorce rights, Federal Employee Benefits and divorce, 10 reasons people won’t move on after a divorce, and the Grey Divorce. Sept 30, 2022 (click the title to go to the article) 1-The Life-Changing Divorce Coaches Helping Couples Split I was…

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Divorce in the News Sept 23, 2022

 Five of the latest divorce articles include a divorce article from Psychology Today, a messy divorce story, what to do if a spouse refuses to sign the divorce papers, how to buy a house after a divorce and the 40 dos and don’ts during a divorce. Sept 23, 2022 (click the title to go to…

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