Tag: #DivorceRecovery
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Welcome to the World of Online Dating-The Blurry Photo: A Common Red Flag in Online Dating
You know, after a long marriage, a lot of us never imagined we’d be diving into the world of online dating. But here we are, figuring it out and trying to find some new connections. It’s definitely a different ballgame, but sometimes, it’s just part of starting over. I’ve been doing some research and exploring…
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Surviving and Thriving: Valentine’s Day After Divorce
Being alone on Valentine’s Day after a divorce can stir up a mix of difficult emotions. With romantic imagery everywhere, it often feels like a painful reminder of loss and loneliness, sometimes even bringing up grief, anger, and anxiety. For many, it becomes like a second breakup or a day of mourning for the life…
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Inspirational Quotes: Finding God’s Light in the Darkness
“It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light.” — Aristotle These words by Aristotle resonate deeply with me, especially when I think back to the darkest chapter of my life—my divorce. It was a time filled with uncertainty, pain, and fear, a period when light seemed all but extinguished.…
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Monthly Motivation: Tasting the Layers of Life—Joy and Challenge Alike
Some time ago, I read an intriguing novel called The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cakeby Aimee Bender. The story centers on a girl with a unique gift—the ability to taste the emotions and feelings woven into the food others prepare for her. Through flavors of joy, betrayal, fear, and loneliness, she uncovers hidden truths and gets…
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What The Heck Is…? Divorce From Bed and Board.
What The Heck Is….? Divorce From Bed and Board This is how I understand divorce from bed and board. Divorce from bed and board is a court-ordered separation where the couple remains legally married but lives apart. It’s a fault-based legal action initiated at the request of the injured spouse. Divorce from Bed and Board… …
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How Long Does it Take to Get Over Divorce? It Depends on Who You Ask!
How long does it really take to heal from the end of a long-term marriage? Well, the answer varies depending on who you ask. Divorce is tough—especially when it’s not what you wanted. After 37 years of marriage, going through that kind of ending was the hardest thing I’ve ever faced. Healing is a long…
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Beginning Your Day: The Power of a Morning Routine
Life can throw us some tough curveballs—divorce, major changes, and unexpected challenges that can feel overwhelming and chaotic. Amidst this uncertainty, a simple, consistent morning routine can be a surprisingly powerful tool. While it might seem mundane, having a steady start to your day can bring structure, ease mental clutter, and create a calming sense…
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Navigating Social Media During Divorce: What You Need to Know
Divorce is a complex journey with many things to consider, and if you’re active on social media, it’s crucial to rethink how you use these platforms during the process. Early on, my attorney insisted I meet with a private investigator, which honestly caught me by surprise. During that first visit, one of the very first…
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Inspirational Quote: Turning Toward the Light in Life’s Challenges
Sometimes, it’s something as simple as a quote that can lift our spirits and help us face life in the right direction. I recently came across a beautiful line by Walt Whitman: “Keep your face always toward the sunshine—and shadows will fall behind you.” These words truly resonate with me. To me, this means focusing…
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Ask the Divorce Lady-Dear Divorce Lady..Will I Be Judged For Swearing?
Is it okay to swear when you’re going through a rough time like a divorce? And does God really judge us for using those words? The truth is, it depends on who you ask. Everyone has their own take on swearing, especially when emotions are running high. In this post, let’s answer the question, from…