Divorce and Stress Relief – Try a Hug

Divorce ranks up there with the greatest of stressors.  The stress caused by divorce ranks just under the death of a spouse.  I would disagree with that because to me, “Divorce is like a death but with intent” Going through an unwanted divorce, to me, was the most stressful event in my life so far.…

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Morning Motivation A Sermon TAKE by David Anderson

I love my Sunday mornings. I do not have a home church as of yet, so I grab my coffee and note pad and listen to a sermon via podcast. In the last two weeks, I have listened to services from Bridgeway Church in Maryland.  The pastor both times has been David Anderson. He starts his…

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Quote From My Book “My Story My Divorce God’s Promise”

Please check out my book on Amazon. My Story My Divorce God’s Promise, The Beginning Thanks! KathieyV kathieyvwriter.com

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Divorce During the CoronaVirus

As I look at the information on getting a divorce during Coronaviurs I am finding very little.  The bulk of the information I have found has been about shared custody during this time of social distancing.  There are many articles on the difficulty this will cause married couples and how being homebound together could lead…

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How to Survive the Pain of Divorce-A YouTube Video.

Occasionally I like to share a relevant divorce recovery video.  I found this one on youtube. My favorite quote was by Patty Blue Hayes. “It is a death, but from that death you have a beginning”. Similar to my quote… God Bless You On Your Journey! KathieyV

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Narcissism, “Be Free”

I like this quote I found online in regard to being a survivor of a narcissist… “The abuse doesn’t happen because the victims volunteer for it. The abuse happens because the abusers lie, manipulate and speak in  mixed messages.  And out of love and a sense of fairness, we trust them”.   Narcissism Book of…

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The Beginning-The Butterfly(Written in 2014)

I was reading a post on one of my favorite sites, Divorced Moms.  There are many stories out there by many women thrown away by the man that promised to “love and to cherish till death do we part”.  Empty words and empty promises.  Here is a post by Moxie.  You can feel her pain but…

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Monthly Motivation “Build That Tower” Luke 14:28-30

When my husband first left me, I had a strong desire to help other women going through the same pain.  I remember so vividly sitting in the office where I worked and feeling strongly that God told me to write.  Write about the initial shock, write about the process, and write about the joy that…

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