I was reading an article by Dr. Karen Finn that I found on Your Tango titled 24 Ridiculous Divorce Lies You Should Never, Ever Believe . As I was reading her thoughts I decided to choose 3 “lies” that I could relate to… 1-“It takes one year for every four years of marriage to get over … Continue reading
Post from The Beginning…2013 Another rough week. I have learned that my situation can throw you into depression and that is what has seemed to have happened to me. I have had sorrow, I have sadness, and I have had disappointment, but depression is an entirely different creature. It gives me a greater respect for … Continue reading
If you do any reading about divorce, you will inevitably come across the word “Narcissism.” I don’t believe that it is only the narcissist that makes decisions that destroy families but it seems that in the world of lies and infidelity that narcissism most definitely plays a part. I never really understood the meaning of … Continue reading
This week I listened to a sermon by Curtis Andrusko who was speaking at The Summit Church. It was about the Fruit of the Spirit. This is how I interpreted his message… I guess there is a way to define us and our walk with or without Christ. We can be directed by our faith … Continue reading
Blast from the past….I wrote this back in 2013 in The Beginning of my trauma. I just thought I would re-post it after a bit of editing and updating of course. My Thoughts. In church last week the pastor spoke of the ripple effect of divorce. It touches everyone involved not just the grieving partner. … Continue reading
I talk with people often about divorce. Many women and a handful of men I have spoken with have experienced, what some call, gaslighting. How I understand gaslighting, it is the twisting of the truth and invention of new untruths. I found an article that deals with the subject, “I Reject Your Reality and Substitute My … Continue reading
We saw him in the distance. His head held high not only with confidence but conviction. He would stand his ground. Yes, it was a territorial goose. I have encountered them on many occasions, but this one looked particularly determined. Brodie and I stopped and just looked at him. We had choices. We could run … Continue reading
