Memories of My Divorce Journey, The Beginning. “Keep Looking Up Children”

I am going back to the beginning of my Divorce Recovery blog, which I started in 2013.  I will read my old posts and share them as I go back over my story.  It may be painful to relive the early days, but my hope is that it will help someone on the same or…

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Watch TV With Me-Grace and Frankie Season 1 Episode 1-With Journal Prompts

Divorce seems to touch everyone’s lives these days.  It was rare to hear of divorce when I was a child.  This is no longer the case, and it seems vows to God and others mean very little in our society.  I disagree with this new way of thinking, and I believe a vow is a…

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Divorce Article-7 Ways to Embrace Being on Your Own After Divorce-Huff Post

I was doing a bit of reading on Huff Post in the divorce section.  I came across this article, “7 Ways To Embrace Being On Your Own After Divorce”  I like to try to apply at least part of my readings to my life, so let’s take a look and see how they apply to me…

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How to Go Solo After Divorce-Going Out Alone

I was married for most of my life.  Everything I did and everywhere I went usually involved either my husband or my kids.  Suddenly with an unwanted divorce, you find you do not have that partner beside you to experience life’s events and adventures.   I have been separated since 2013, and I still find…

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Words of Pain and Hope-Divorce

Words of Pain and Hope From Others Going Through Divorce If you going through divorce hang in there you are not alone.  Always remember God’s Promise” I will never leave you or forsake you” Thank You God! Kathiey V

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Online Dating and the Grey Divorce. Is it Worth It?

 I never thought I would be thinking about dating again in my 60’s.  I thought I would be retired with my husband, enjoying our grandchildren and taking trips as a family.  That dream did not pan out because my husband of nearly four decades walked out on me.  So is online dating for me?  Let’s…

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Quote From My Book-“My Story My Divorce God’s Promise”

My book is for sale on Amazon. God Bless You! KathieyV

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The Journey-Life Lessons From A Territorial Goose

Brodie and I were on our morning walk when we saw a foreboding character in the distance. His head held high not only with confidence but conviction. He would stand his ground, and we knew it. Yes, it was a territorial goose. I have encountered them on many occasions, but this one looked particularly determined.…

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Divorce Diversion-Places-The Cotton House

I have been to the Cotton House in Cary twice.  Once on a food truck night with Erica and Josh and another time with a friend. Their primary focus is beer but luckily for me, they have wine too, happy day. The venue is a historic home built in 1900. There is plenty of seating, both inside and out.…

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Blast From the Past (2014) Thoughts of a Soon to be Divorced Woman..Death of a Family

Since I have entered the world of the soon to be divorced, I have spoken to many women going through the same scenario. Their stories may contain different details, but the theme remains the same. Husband leaves wife unexpectedly and usually with little concern as to how she will get by. Husband’s focus turns to…

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