Tag: #Divorce
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Monthly Motivation: God’s Light Cuts Through Our Darkness
Sometimes, life’s darkest moments make it hard to even imagine a way out. I wrote this poem during one of those times—a reminder that even when darkness feels all-encompassing, the light of God’s love can still shine through. God’s Light Cuts Through Our Darkness “Light can be seen even in the…
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Betrayal Trauma: A Series. What is Betrayal Trauma?
Have you ever heard of betrayal trauma and wondered if you might be experiencing it? I hadn’t until I came across a YouTube video that opened my eyes to this often overlooked type of trauma. After watching, I realized I might be carrying some aspects of betrayal trauma myself. In this four-part series, we’ll explore…
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Welcome to the World of Online Dating-The Blurry Photo: A Common Red Flag in Online Dating
You know, after a long marriage, a lot of us never imagined we’d be diving into the world of online dating. But here we are, figuring it out and trying to find some new connections. It’s definitely a different ballgame, but sometimes, it’s just part of starting over. I’ve been doing some research and exploring…
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Beware The Narcissist! The Narcissist and Triangulation. A Cruel Manipulative Game!
Beware The Narcissist! The narcissist uses many tools to create havoc and achieve their goals, and one such tool is triangulation. First off, what is the definition of Triangulation? Here is a definition I found on Healthline..”Triangulation happens when one or both of the people involved in the conflict try to pull a third…
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How Long Does it Take to Get Over Divorce? It Depends on Who You Ask!
How long does it really take to heal from the end of a long-term marriage? Well, the answer varies depending on who you ask. Divorce is tough—especially when it’s not what you wanted. After 37 years of marriage, going through that kind of ending was the hardest thing I’ve ever faced. Healing is a long…
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Divorce and Pets-What You Need to Know
This post was originally written during my own divorce journey, a time when I was deeply concerned about what would happen to my beloved pet. I’m sharing it now to encourage others going through divorce to consider the future of their pets during this process. I believe that with the right knowledge and determination, it’s…
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Beware The Narcissist-What is An Overt Narcissist?
Beware the Narcissist What is The Overt Narcissist? Divorce often reveals harsh truths, including the reality that some people find themselves entangled with a narcissist. Unfortunately, most of us aren’t taught to recognize narcissistic behavior, so the signs and potential abuse can go unnoticed. That’s why I’m starting a series called Beware The Narcissist to…
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Betrayal Trauma and Divorce Part II: What Puts You at Risk?
What conditions increase the risk of becoming a victim of betrayal trauma? Welcome back to my four-part series on Betrayal Trauma, where we explore what betrayal trauma is, the factors that make someone vulnerable to it, the symptoms to recognize, and strategies for healing and recovery. In this part, we’ll dive into the circumstances that…
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Ask the Divorce Lady: Should You Keep, Sell, or Trash Your Wedding Ring After Divorce?
Ask the Divorce Lady What should I do with my wedding ring now that my husband has walked out on me? Divorce stirs up many tough questions—especially about the little things that suddenly feel enormous, like your wedding ring. Should you hold onto it, sell it, or just get rid of it? I’m…
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What the Heck Is…What the Heck is Mediation??
I know many of us who are going through a divorce or have already gone through a divorce have been hit with a lot we may not understand. We may not understand the jargon used in the legal system, we may be new to online dating, and the list goes on and on. With this…