Category: Divorce Recovery
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What the Heck is: A Series. What the Heck is A No-Fault Divorce
Welcome to my What the Heck Is… series, where I break down common divorce-related terms in simple, easy-to-understand language. Divorce can be complex and confusing, especially with all the legal jargon thrown around. My goal is to help make sense of these terms so you feel more confident navigating the process. Today, let’s talk about one term…
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Betrayal Trauma Part IV-How to Heal From Betray Trauma
Being damaged by betrayal trauma can leave you with a very deep wound. Depending on the size and scope of that wound, it could set us on the path to a difficult recovery. It took me 10 years to crawl out of the pain of this betrayal. I Wish I would have known how to…
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Quotes-A Quote of Great Wisdom- “A Listening Ear Can Be A Running Mouth”
I came across a quote on Pinterest that really hit home: “A Listening Ear Can Be A Running Mouth.” It’s a reminder that sometimes people we trust with our stories might share them when they shouldn’t. Let’s talk about why it’s so important to be careful about who we open up to and how to…
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What the Heck Is….A Divorce Terms Series…What the Heck is Annulment??
Here we are again, exploring terms you might encounter as you navigate the world of divorce. Today, let’s take a closer look at annulment. I’ve heard the term my whole life and assumed it meant dissolving a marriage under certain conditions, typically early on—but I realized there’s much more to it. So, let’s answer the…
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Betrayal Trauma Part III-What Are The Symptoms of Betrayal Trauma
Have you ever heard of betrayal trauma and wondered if you might be experiencing it? I hadn’t until I watched a YouTube video that shed light on this often-overlooked trauma. It made me realize that I might carry some aspects of it myself. In this four-part series, we explore what betrayal trauma is, the factors…
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Betrayal Trauma and Divorce Part II: What Puts You at Risk?
What conditions increase the risk of becoming a victim of betrayal trauma? Welcome back to my four-part series on Betrayal Trauma, where we explore what betrayal trauma is, the factors that make someone vulnerable to it, the symptoms to recognize, and strategies for healing and recovery. In this part, we’ll dive into the circumstances that…
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Inspirational Quote-Don’t Wait For Opportunities, Get Up and Make Them!
I really love this quote by Madam C. J. Walker, and it rings true not just for those of us facing divorce, but for anyone navigating life’s challenges. Divorce can turn your world upside down, leaving you uncertain about the next step. It’s natural to want to withdraw and wait for change to come, but…
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Ask the Divorce Lady: Should You Keep, Sell, or Trash Your Wedding Ring After Divorce?
Ask the Divorce Lady What should I do with my wedding ring now that my husband has walked out on me? Divorce stirs up many tough questions—especially about the little things that suddenly feel enormous, like your wedding ring. Should you hold onto it, sell it, or just get rid of it? I’m…
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What The Heck is Series- What the Heck is Contempt of Court?
What The Heck Is? A Series… If you find yourself pulled into the legal life of getting a divorce, you will more than likely be faced with terminology that you are not familiar with. That was the case for me; I found myself ignorant of many facts and terms that I needed to become familiar with.…
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What the Heck Is…What the Heck is Mediation??
I know many of us who are going through a divorce or have already gone through a divorce have been hit with a lot we may not understand. We may not understand the jargon used in the legal system, we may be new to online dating, and the list goes on and on. With this…