Category: Divorce Recovery
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Surviving and Thriving: Valentine’s Day After Divorce
Being alone on Valentine’s Day after a divorce can stir up a mix of difficult emotions. With romantic imagery everywhere, it often feels like a painful reminder of loss and loneliness, sometimes even bringing up grief, anger, and anxiety. For many, it becomes like a second breakup or a day of mourning for the life…
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From Shock to Strength: Healing After a Blindsided Divorce
Have you heard of a blindsided divorce? It’s a painful reality for many who find themselves completely caught off guard by their partner’s decision to end the marriage. I know this feeling all too well. I experienced a blindsided divorce firsthand, unaware that my spouse had already been secretly planning to leave—securing an apartment and…
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How Long Does it Take to Get Over Divorce? It Depends on Who You Ask!
How long does it really take to heal from the end of a long-term marriage? Well, the answer varies depending on who you ask. Divorce is tough—especially when it’s not what you wanted. After 37 years of marriage, going through that kind of ending was the hardest thing I’ve ever faced. Healing is a long…
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Beginning Your Day: The Power of a Morning Routine
Life can throw us some tough curveballs—divorce, major changes, and unexpected challenges that can feel overwhelming and chaotic. Amidst this uncertainty, a simple, consistent morning routine can be a surprisingly powerful tool. While it might seem mundane, having a steady start to your day can bring structure, ease mental clutter, and create a calming sense…
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Ask The Divorce Lady: Trending TikTok Question – What 3 Things Would You Take in a Divorce?
There’s a hot question buzzing around TikTok: “What 3 things would you grab if you got divorced?” The answers range from the sensible to the totally petty—and some even made me do a double take. In this post, I’m taking a look at all the typical, the spiteful, and the downright surprising responses. Plus, I’ll…
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Navigating Social Media During Divorce: What You Need to Know
Divorce is a complex journey with many things to consider, and if you’re active on social media, it’s crucial to rethink how you use these platforms during the process. Early on, my attorney insisted I meet with a private investigator, which honestly caught me by surprise. During that first visit, one of the very first…
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Ask the Divorce Lady-Dear Divorce Lady..Will I Be Judged For Swearing?
Is it okay to swear when you’re going through a rough time like a divorce? And does God really judge us for using those words? The truth is, it depends on who you ask. Everyone has their own take on swearing, especially when emotions are running high. In this post, let’s answer the question, from…
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An Introduction to Funding Your Divorce: A Practical Guide to Navigating Financial Challenges — A Series
Facing a divorce with limited financial resources can be overwhelming, but you’re not alone—and there are practical ways to fund your journey ahead. This series, Funding Your Divorce: A Practical Guide to Navigating Financial Challenges, begins by exploring key options and strategies to help you navigate the financial side of divorce. Divorce can be expensive. The average…
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Divorce and Pets-What You Need to Know
This post was originally written during my own divorce journey, a time when I was deeply concerned about what would happen to my beloved pet. I’m sharing it now to encourage others going through divorce to consider the future of their pets during this process. I believe that with the right knowledge and determination, it’s…
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Moving On After Divorce: Practical Steps to a Positive New Beginning-Redefining Who You Are.
Redefine Who You Are Why is it so important to redefine your life after divorce? Because it’s not just the end of a chapter—it’s the start of a new one. Though this time can be tough and full of uncertainty, it’s also a rare opportunity for personal growth, self-discovery, and creating a more authentic, fulfilling…