Divorce During the CoronaVirus

As I look at the information on getting a divorce during Coronaviurs I am finding very little.  The bulk of the information I have found has been about shared custody during this time of social distancing.  There are many articles on the difficulty this will cause married couples and how being homebound together could lead…

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Trapped At Home During the CoronaVirus. Ways I stay somewhat sane.

I know that many of us are practicing social distancing in an attempt to “flatten the curve” to protect ourselves and those we love from getting the virus.  We also isolate ourselves in an attempt to decrease the massive influx of patients that have to go to the hospital thus taxing healthcare equipment and staff.…

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Narcissism, “Be Free”

I like this quote I found online in regard to being a survivor of a narcissist… “The abuse doesn’t happen because the victims volunteer for it. The abuse happens because the abusers lie, manipulate and speak in  mixed messages.  And out of love and a sense of fairness, we trust them”.   Narcissism Book of…

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The Beginning-The Butterfly(Written in 2014)

I was reading a post on one of my favorite sites, Divorced Moms.  There are many stories out there by many women thrown away by the man that promised to “love and to cherish till death do we part”.  Empty words and empty promises.  Here is a post by Moxie.  You can feel her pain but…

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Monthly Motivation “Build That Tower” Luke 14:28-30

When my husband first left me, I had a strong desire to help other women going through the same pain.  I remember so vividly sitting in the office where I worked and feeling strongly that God told me to write.  Write about the initial shock, write about the process, and write about the joy that…

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The Beginning, Surviving Divorce “Just Breathe”

I cannot adequately describe the pain of an unwanted divorce, but I can explain the effect, at least the impact it had on me. I remember lying in bed, not able to sleep, unable to stop crying, feeling both emotional and physical pain to the point where my skin literally burned. During this time, I…

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Quote From My Book-“My Story My Divorce God’s Promise”

My book is for sale on Amazon. God Bless You! KathieyV

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Stress Relief-Let’s Go Hiking!

There is something relaxing about taking a hike outside on a nice day.  Feeling the cool breeze and warm sun on your face as you surround yourself with the beauty of the countryside has a calming effect, at least on me. As I was looking for ways to relieve stress I found that many believe…

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