Author: KathieyV
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Beware the Narcissist: Love Bombing

Beware the Narcissist: Love Bombing Part of the ongoing series: Beware the Narcissist I research narcissism because so many people navigating divorce have lived through it without ever having a name for what they experienced. And one of the most confusing parts of that experience often happens right at the very beginning, before anyone suspects…
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Stress Relief-Need Stress Relief? Try Laughter!

Life isn’t always easy. Challenges arise, and with them often comes stress. There are moments when we feel calm and at peace, but other times when stress knocks persistently at our door. Stress can show up in many forms, but no matter what you’re facing, it’s reassuring to know there are ways to ease that…
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Dating After Divorce-Romance Scams, A Few Warning Signs.

Dating After Divorce-The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly Welcome to Dating After Divorce, a series that explores the unique journey of stepping back into the dating world after a long-term marriage or significant relationship. Many of us never imagined we’d be navigating this new terrain, but here we are—embracing the excitement of meeting new people…
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Monthly Motivation-A Turn on the Trail

I recently watched the movie The Highwaymen, a gripping story about two lawmen tracking down Bonnie and Clyde. One line really caught my attention—it mentioned “one turn on the trail.” To me, this powerful phrase means that a single decision or change in direction can completely alter the course of our lives. The turns and decisions…
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Inspirational Quotes: Finding Courage to Open New Doors

Today, I want to share a quote by Ava DuVernay that really resonates: “I’m not going to continue knocking that old door that doesn’t open for me. I’m going to create my own door and walk through that.” This hits home on so many levels. To find success and happiness, we can’t keep repeating the…
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If You Could Design Your Perfect Life, What Would It Look Like For You?

Journal Prompt-If you could design your perfect life, what would it look like for you? When I consider what a perfect life looks like, I can’t help but reflect on my life before and after divorce. Before divorce, I viewed my life through the lens of commitment—commitment to my marriage and my vows to God.…
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The Fine Art of Dining Solo: A Divorced Woman’s Perspective

Eating out alone might sound a little scary at first, especially if you’re newly single, but it can actually be a lot of fun! Since my divorce, I’ve gone solo dining more times than I can count, and I’ve learned it’s a great way to enjoy good food and treat yourself. Ready to turn solo…
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Welcome to the World of Online Dating-Red Flags-The Profile Photo

“Welcome to the World of Online Dating” series, where we unpack the ins and outs, challenges, and tips for navigating the digital dating scene. It’s a space to help you feel more confident and informed as you explore connections in this modern world. Today, let’s focus on a potential red flag you might encounter early on—the…
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What the Heck is Series -What the Heck is Divorce Through Publication?

Welcome to my series, What the Heck Is…, where I break down common divorce and divorce recovery terms in easy-to-understand language. If you’re new to the divorce process or feeling overwhelmed by all the jargon, this series is for you. Together, we’ll demystify the terms and help you gain confidence as you navigate this challenging journey.…
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Divorce and Pets-What You Need to Know

This post was originally written during my own divorce journey, a time when I was deeply concerned about what would happen to my beloved pet. I’m sharing it now to encourage others going through divorce to consider the future of their pets during this process. I believe that with the right knowledge and determination, it’s…
