Category: KathieyV
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From Shock to Strength: Healing After a Blindsided Divorce
Have you heard of a blindsided divorce? It’s a painful reality for many who find themselves completely caught off guard by their partner’s decision to end the marriage. I know this feeling all too well. I experienced a blindsided divorce firsthand, unaware that my spouse had already been secretly planning to leave—securing an apartment and…
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Monthly Motivation: Tasting the Layers of Life—Joy and Challenge Alike
Some time ago, I read an intriguing novel called The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cakeby Aimee Bender. The story centers on a girl with a unique gift—the ability to taste the emotions and feelings woven into the food others prepare for her. Through flavors of joy, betrayal, fear, and loneliness, she uncovers hidden truths and gets…
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What The Heck Is…? Divorce From Bed and Board.
What The Heck Is….? Divorce From Bed and Board This is how I understand divorce from bed and board. Divorce from bed and board is a court-ordered separation where the couple remains legally married but lives apart. It’s a fault-based legal action initiated at the request of the injured spouse. Divorce from Bed and Board… …
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How Long Does it Take to Get Over Divorce? It Depends on Who You Ask!
How long does it really take to heal from the end of a long-term marriage? Well, the answer varies depending on who you ask. Divorce is tough—especially when it’s not what you wanted. After 37 years of marriage, going through that kind of ending was the hardest thing I’ve ever faced. Healing is a long…
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Beginning Your Day: The Power of a Morning Routine
Life can throw us some tough curveballs—divorce, major changes, and unexpected challenges that can feel overwhelming and chaotic. Amidst this uncertainty, a simple, consistent morning routine can be a surprisingly powerful tool. While it might seem mundane, having a steady start to your day can bring structure, ease mental clutter, and create a calming sense…
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Monthly Motivation-A Turn on the Trail
I recently watched the movie The Highwaymen, a gripping story about two lawmen tracking down Bonnie and Clyde. One line really caught my attention—it mentioned “one turn on the trail.” To me, this powerful phrase means that a single decision or change in direction can completely alter the course of our lives. The turns and decisions…
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Ask The Divorce Lady: Trending TikTok Question – What 3 Things Would You Take in a Divorce?
There’s a hot question buzzing around TikTok: “What 3 things would you grab if you got divorced?” The answers range from the sensible to the totally petty—and some even made me do a double take. In this post, I’m taking a look at all the typical, the spiteful, and the downright surprising responses. Plus, I’ll…
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Navigating Social Media During Divorce: What You Need to Know
Divorce is a complex journey with many things to consider, and if you’re active on social media, it’s crucial to rethink how you use these platforms during the process. Early on, my attorney insisted I meet with a private investigator, which honestly caught me by surprise. During that first visit, one of the very first…
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Inspirational Quote: Turning Toward the Light in Life’s Challenges
Sometimes, it’s something as simple as a quote that can lift our spirits and help us face life in the right direction. I recently came across a beautiful line by Walt Whitman: “Keep your face always toward the sunshine—and shadows will fall behind you.” These words truly resonate with me. To me, this means focusing…
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Ask the Divorce Lady-Dear Divorce Lady..Will I Be Judged For Swearing?
Is it okay to swear when you’re going through a rough time like a divorce? And does God really judge us for using those words? The truth is, it depends on who you ask. Everyone has their own take on swearing, especially when emotions are running high. In this post, let’s answer the question, from…