Stress Relief When Going Through Divorce: Let’s Try Prayer

I am now about five years removed from the time my husband decided to leave without any attempt to heal whatever he thought was wrong and without any expressed warning to me.  He had made up his mind to leave, and that is what he did. Needless to say separation and divorce tend to lead […]

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Ask The Divorce Lady: What Should I do With My Wedding Ring??

Ask the Divorce Lady What should I do with my wedding ring now that my husband has walked out on me? For me the answer was simple “Hock that puppy!” I don’t think there is any wrong answer to the question of what to do with a wedding ring when it no longer stands for the […]

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Morning Motivation;Sharing God’s Grace and Mercy

I am reading several devotionals at one time.  Not that I am consistent in my reading of any of them, but  I  attempt to read a few pages daily to try to find God’s will for me.  One of my favorites is “Glimpses of God’s Grace”  by Anita Donahue. Anita speaks of stepping out on […]

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Morning Motivation: A Lesson from the Movie “The Help”

I have just recently finished the book “The Help”  When I found out there was a movie I could not wait to see it. There were many times during the movie I found myself angry at the injustice and other times touched by the tenderness. The love in the quote repeatedly spoken by Abilene to […]

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Ask the Divorce Lady; The Afterlife

Dear Divorce Lady; How do you envision the perfect afterlife for the narcissistic male that intentionally damages others with no regard for the pain they leave behind? My Answer Their afterlife, if I were in charge, would look like this. All these so-called men would find themselves on a gigantic island; it would have to […]

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Morning Motivation: Even the Damaged Produce Good Fruit

“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God”.  2 Corinthians 1:3-4 Have you ever really looked at an apple tree?  I […]

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Morning Motivation: Running the Race

Hebrews 12:1-3 Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us,  fixing our eyes on Jesus,the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the […]

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Morning Motivation- “The God Who Sees Me”

Hagar in the book of Genesis did not have it easy. But even with difficulty in her life, she recognized God as “the God who sees me.” Help us, God, to realize you see us too.  In pain, in joy and everything in-between thank you God for being the God who sees, understands us and […]

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Morning Motivation and Devotional “God’s Promise”

Corrie Ten Boom was an amazing woman. She and her family helped many Jews escape the Nazi Holocaust by hiding them in their home. Sadly she and her family were discovered and imprisoned in a concentration camp. Even in the midst of the trauma of the prison camp Corrie held onto her faith and was […]

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My Divorce Story Page 1

I have decided I am going, to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth so help me God.  I am going to share it in segments here on my divorce recovery blog.  I have been silent way too long.  For today I am just going to share a photo and some […]

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