The Pain of Divorce-Divorce is Like A Death But With Intent

Divorce can be an extremely painful and difficult time.  I plan to write 3 books in regard to my divorce experience.  The first is about the pain, the second is about the journey through the process, and the third is about the joy that can still be found even in the pain.  Here is a…

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Monthly Motivation-He Directs Our Path

Monthly MotivationHe Directs Our Path It was spring break for my grandson Caleb.  We decided to go to a museum every day for three days.  The first museum had a special exhibit that contained challenging mazes and puzzles.  I know I am not the best at making my way through mazes, but we decided to…

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Divorce Diversion- Let’s Forget About Divorce for a While and Have Some Fun!

Divorce Diversion Let’s look at some fun things in life and take our focus off of divorce for a while. There are links below if you want to know more. *Let’s take a look at a few possible Recipes for Thanksgiving.  I would love to try them all. *Here are a Few Daily Holidays to Celebrate in…

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Thought Provoking Quote of the Month by Dr. Seuss-Choose Joy!

Even in the painful moments in life, don’t forget to look for all the good that surrounds you.  “Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.” Dr. Seuss I remember this evening so well.  A chance to hold my grandchildren. Even in the confusion of life, my heart…

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Ask The Divorce Lady: What Happens in the Afterlife to Those Who Intentionally Damage Others?

This is a series called “Ask The Divorce Lady.” ?The Afterlife? The Youtube Version Dear Divorce Lady… How do you envision the perfect afterlife for the narcissistic male who intentionally damages others without regard for the pain they leave behind? My Answer… Their afterlife, if I were in charge, would look like this. All these…

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Divorce in the News. A Few Divorce-Related Articles for October 2023

Every few weeks or so, I check to see what is happening in Divorce News. I search “divorce” in Google and put a time frame on the search of that current week/month to give me an overview of what is happening in divorce news. The trending news is typically celebrity news. Yes, in the news,…

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Journal Prompts-Do You Want to Share Your Story? Tell Your Story Through Journaling-Intro to a Monthly Series

 Journaling, I have found to be an invaluable tool.  Journaling is not only a way to relieve stress and help us process things it is also a way to tell our story. I am a daughter, an ex-wife, a Christian, a nurse, a mom, and a grandmother.  Life is busy, and even though it is…

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A Few Ways To Endure An Unwanted Divorce

In my opinion, divorce is one of the most stressful times in a person’s life.  I can only say that because I have experienced it.  I never thought I would find myself in this situation, having been married for 37 years.  I didn’t think it would happen to me, but that just shows us we…

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Divorce Diversion-Plan a Party, Buy A Fall Outfit, Go Explore, And an Entertainment Wrap-Up.

 Happy Weekend  Let’s look at some fun things in life and take our focus off of divorce for a while. There are links below if you want to know more. *I decided my party for October would be a Pumpkin Carving Party. Here you will find ideas and recipes for your own pumpkin party. *Here…

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What the Heck Is? A Series On Divorced Related Jargon Explained.

 I know many of us who are going through a divorce or have already gone through a divorce have been hit with a lot we may not understand.  We may not understand the jargon used in the legal system, we may be new to online dating, and the list goes on and on.  With this…

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