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Inspirational Quotes: Finding God’s Light in the Darkness

“It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light.” — Aristotle These words by Aristotle resonate deeply with me, especially when I think back to the darkest chapter of my life—my divorce. It was a time filled with uncertainty, pain, and fear, a period when light seemed all but extinguished.…
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Fun Friday-Discovering Neo Deco: Creating and Selling My Latest Design

Today is Etsy shop day, and I’m putting the spotlight on my shop, Art In Design. It’s where I create and share a mix of fun digital downloads—some inspired by the latest trends and others showcasing fun prints and some of my photography. It’s always exciting to play with colors, shapes, and themes to bring style and…
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From Shock to Strength: Healing After a Blindsided Divorce

Have you heard of a blindsided divorce? It’s a painful reality for many who find themselves completely caught off guard by their partner’s decision to end the marriage. I know this feeling all too well. I experienced a blindsided divorce firsthand, unaware that my spouse had already been secretly planning to leave—securing an apartment and…
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Monthly Motivation: Tasting the Layers of Life—Joy and Challenge Alike

Some time ago, I read an intriguing novel called The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cakeby Aimee Bender. The story centers on a girl with a unique gift—the ability to taste the emotions and feelings woven into the food others prepare for her. Through flavors of joy, betrayal, fear, and loneliness, she uncovers hidden truths and gets…
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Stress Relief: Light a Candle for Calm and Comfort

There are countless ways to nurture ourselves and ease the stress that life brings. One simple and popular method many people turn to is lighting a scented candle. Let’s explore the soothing benefits that come from this calming ritual. Did you know lighting a scented candle can boost your mental health? The gentle aroma helps…
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What The Heck Is…? Divorce From Bed and Board.

What The Heck Is….? Divorce From Bed and Board This is how I understand divorce from bed and board. Divorce from bed and board is a court-ordered separation where the couple remains legally married but lives apart. It’s a fault-based legal action initiated at the request of the injured spouse. Divorce from Bed and Board… …
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How Long Does it Take to Get Over Divorce? It Depends on Who You Ask!

How long does it really take to heal from the end of a long-term marriage? Well, the answer varies depending on who you ask. Divorce is tough—especially when it’s not what you wanted. After 37 years of marriage, going through that kind of ending was the hardest thing I’ve ever faced. Healing is a long…
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Beginning Your Day: The Power of a Morning Routine

Life can throw us some tough curveballs—divorce, major changes, and unexpected challenges that can feel overwhelming and chaotic. Amidst this uncertainty, a simple, consistent morning routine can be a surprisingly powerful tool. While it might seem mundane, having a steady start to your day can bring structure, ease mental clutter, and create a calming sense…
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Monthly Motivation-A Turn on the Trail

I recently watched the movie The Highwaymen, a gripping story about two lawmen tracking down Bonnie and Clyde. One line really caught my attention—it mentioned “one turn on the trail.” To me, this powerful phrase means that a single decision or change in direction can completely alter the course of our lives. The turns and decisions…
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Ask The Divorce Lady: Trending TikTok Question – What 3 Things Would You Take in a Divorce?

There’s a hot question buzzing around TikTok: “What 3 things would you grab if you got divorced?” The answers range from the sensible to the totally petty—and some even made me do a double take. In this post, I’m taking a look at all the typical, the spiteful, and the downright surprising responses. Plus, I’ll…



