Dating After Divorce-The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
Welcome to Dating After Divorce, a series that explores the unique journey of stepping back into the dating world after a long-term marriage or significant relationship. Many of us never imagined we’d be navigating this new terrain, but here we are—embracing the excitement of meeting new people and embarking on fresh adventures. Along the way, we’ll also discuss the potential challenges and red flags to watch out for, helping you date confidently and safely as you rediscover love and connection. Today our focus will be….
Romance Scams
Dating again after divorce can be an exciting adventure, but it also has its risks. While it can bring wonderful new connections, some individuals may try to take advantage of those looking for love. Let’s take a moment to explore what a romance scam is and highlight some key warning signs to watch out for.
First off, what is a Romance Scam? According to Avast, a Romance Scam is…
“A romance scam (or online dating scam) is when a fraudster tricks
someone into a fake romantic relationship.”
Scammers will target anyone they see as an easy mark, but they often focus on people over 50—especially those who are recently divorced or widowed. Still, they’re willing to go after anyone they believe they can manipulate.
Here are a few warning signs…
- Often, scammers use very attractive profile pictures, frequently borrowing images from stock photos or professional models.
- Their profile may contain very few photos
- They claim to live or work far away from you.
- The online relationship progresses quickly, with them expressing strong feelings or love after just a few conversations.
- They might make big promises—like marriage or moving in together—even before you’ve met in person.
- They often rush to move the conversation away from the dating site, aiming to get more personal information from you.
- They often avoid video chats to keep their true identity hidden.
- Requesting money before you’ve even met is a major red flag.
These are just a few warning signs to watch for. If you’re using dating sites, stay cautious—learn to spot the red flags, protect yourself, and enjoy the moments with those who genuinely have good intentions.
God Bless You On Your Journey!
KathieyV