New Blog Related to the Pain of my Separation and Soon to be Divorce

This post I call a blast from the past.  This was written in June of 2013, when my nightmare began. I don’t know I arrived here, but here I am. I will soon be divorced after 37 years of marriage. I have known for about four weeks. It came as a complete surprise; you could…

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Spiritual Short Story. The Carrot The Egg The Coffee

I found this short story on a site called Spiritual Short Stories. The title of the story and the author are unknown.  As I read the story,  I thought of myself and others that have experienced pain and despair caused by an unwanted and unnecessary divorce. The Story A young woman went to her grandmother and told…

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Quote From My Book, “My Story My Divorce God’s Promise…

(This is my book and I do get proceeds from the sale:-)

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Morning Motivation Sharing God’s Mercy and Grace

I am reading several devotionals at one time.  Not that I am consistent in my reading of any of them, but  I  attempt to read a few pages daily to try to find God’s will for me.  One of my favorites is “Glimpses of God’s Grace”  by Anita Donahue. Anita speaks of stepping out on…

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The Beginning, Thank You K-Love

I remember the painful early days of my separation. The event knocked me to the ground where I landed in a soul crushing fetal position. My emotions changed, and in an instant, my calm and clear mind fell into a cloud of confusion and despair. I remember my ability to do the things I did…

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Blast From the Past..The Spy Phone..The Beginning

This is an old post from 2014.  Remembering “The Spy Phone” My Story Page 11….The Spy Phone….      I remember the day like it was yesterday.  The day I traveled to Raleigh to hire a Private Investigator.    I could not seem to wrap my mind around the fact that I was turning to…

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Quote from My Story My Divorce God’s Promise…The Beginning

This is a quote from my book…My Story My Divorce God’s Promise…The Beginning. (Below are places you can buy my book if you are interested, this this is an ad for my book and I get proceeds if you buy my book.) *Amazon  *Create Space Always remember God’s Promise.. “I will never leave you or…

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Quote from my book, My Story My Divorce God’s Promise

It was a pain I never could have imagined.  If you are going through this hold on tight to your faith and your friends.  And always remember God’s Promise… “I will never leave you or forsake you”.  Thank you God! KathieyV

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My Thoughts on “24 Ridiculous Divorce Lies…” by Dr. Karen Finn

I was reading an article by Dr. Karen Finn that I found on Your Tango titled 24 Ridiculous Divorce Lies You Should Never, Ever Believe . As I was reading her thoughts I decided to choose 3 “lies” that I could relate to… 1-“It takes one year for every four years of marriage to get over…

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Monday Morning Motivation…”Praying through Our Tears” from GuidePosts Magazine  

Post from The Beginning…2013 Another rough week.  I have learned that my situation can throw you into depression and that is what has seemed to have happened to me.  I have had sorrow, I have sadness, and I have had disappointment, but depression is an entirely different creature.  It gives me a greater respect for…

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