Looking Back, June 2013. The Beginning

Sunday, June 30, 2013

New blog related to the pain of my separation and soon to be divorce

 I don’t know I arrived here but here I am. I will soon be divorced after 37 years of marriage. I have known for about 4 weeks. It came as a complete surprise, you could say I was blindsided.

This blog is hosted by a Christian woman going through separation and soon to be divorce that is unwanted, unwarranted and unnecessary. It will be an honest and painful account as I go through the stages of grief and hopefully find peace through my faith. I know it will not be easy. I have lost weight, lost sleep, cried everyday and I am showing physical symptoms related to this stress, all the while I am still trying to hold unto God’s promise that he is beside me. Not easy.
This will not be fun but I know there are many others out there in the same boat as me. Hopefully we can grow together.
I host another blog….Kathiey’s World where I will be attempting to get back to my routine of enjoying my life. I have not done well with this one lately, due to my state of mind, hopefully I will be able to find joy again or at least be able to fake it.
Please bear with me as I get this blog set up. I am in a bad way.
Hope through God’s beauty
Hope through God’s word
“I will never leave you or forsake you”

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Hi, I am a mom, nana, and writer living in the beautiful state of NC. I was married for 37 years and then blindsided by my husband, a former pastor. After decades he filed for legal separation without a word to me. It has been a rough road coming to terms with this new life that has been chosen for me. My blog is a place where I share "The Beginning," this place I found myself, a place I did not want to be. "The Journey," the things we need to do as we traverse this new road. Lastly "The Joy," and yes there is still joy to be found even after great pain. I have finished my first book "My Story My Divorce God's Promise, The Beginning." I am in the process of writing The Journey and The Joy. Please join me on my adventure to a new life. Always remember God's Promise "I will never leave you or forsake you."

4 thoughts on “Looking Back, June 2013. The Beginning

    1. I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. I call it like a death but with intent. Awful. It is one step at a time. Praying for you my friend….we will make it:-)

      1. We will. It does feel like a death in the family. I am choosing a path of forgiveness and reconstruction. I hope for some meaningful connections with new people, and perhaps even find new love. It all seems unlikely, but I will need to persevere no matter what. Thanks for your encouragement. I need to hear it often😄

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