The Bombshell Divorce-Spousal Abandonment Syndrome

When I think back over the events that led up to my divorce.  I get tiny waves, ripples of the pain and shock I encountered.  When this first occurred, the pain and shock were more like tidal waves.  For me, it was like a sneak attack of a divorce revelation. I guess I will call…

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Forgiveness and Moving On After Divorce

Forgiveness is a difficult concept when it comes to being intentionally hurt or damaged.  I believe we must forgive in order to heal.  Keep in mind forgiving does not mean trusting again or ignoring what has happened.  Forgiveness also does not mean bringing this person back into your life.  Forgiveness is not for them it…

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A Blast From the Past-My Divorce Story-The Beginning

My Divorce Story…A blast from the past… I remember it was a Tuesday night.  It was the first week in June 2013. I worked on this particular Tuesday.  The only thing on my mind was getting through the day and heading home.  I would go for a walk with Brodie, make a quick and tasty…

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My Story My Divorce, The Beginning-The Deposition “I Plead the Fifth”

Blast From the Past 2013The Beginning The Deposition Just what is the Fifth Amendment? I found one answer on Lawyers.com “Under the  Fifth Amendment to the US Constitution, anyone suspected of committing a crime has the right to remain silent when questioned by police or prosecutors.  In other words, if truthful answers to their questions would prove you committed the crime, you don’t have…

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My Thoughts on an Article, Being Alone After Divorce

I was reading an article on a site called Divorce Girl Smiling the other day. The article was titled Being Alone After Divorce, Why It’s Ok, and Tips on How to Enjoy It. I wanted to read the post and see if this has been true in my divorce experience.  How well, I remember the intense feeling of…

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Memories Of My Divorce Journey: What I learned in church this weekend…

I am going back to the beginning of my Divorce Recovery blog which I started in 2013.  I will read my old posts and share them as I go back over my story.  It may be painful to relive the early days but my hope is that it will help someone on the same or…

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Divorce Article-7 Ways to Embrace Being on Your Own After Divorce-Huff Post

I was doing a bit of reading on Huff Post in the divorce section.  I came across this article, “7 Ways To Embrace Being On Your Own After Divorce”  I like to try to apply at least part of my readings to my life, so let’s take a look and see how they apply to me…

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My Book Update Plus an Excerpt From “My Story My Divorce God’s Promise-The Journey”

Yes, I am working on my next book.  I have hit snags along the way.  The obstacles don’t come in the form of writer’s block but more so in the process of formatting, editing, and publishing the book.   My first book was mainly about the actual pain I was suffering, both physical and mental,…

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The Journey Through Divorce-Social Media and Divorce

There are so many things to think about when you are headed down the road toward divorce.  Like most of us, if we use social media sites, we have to rethink how we use them during the divorce process.  One thing my attorney insisted upon was that I go see a private investigator.  This came…

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Quote From My Book-My Story My Divorce God’s Promise

Here is a quote from my book… Please check out my book on Amazon .My Story My Divorce God’s Promise, The Beginning Thanks! KathieyV kathieyvwriter.com

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